Moms are the Heroes


We’ve all heard it before in one form or another:  “Don’t get between a mother and her baby,”   “There is nothing better (or worse depending on your position!) than a fired up mom” or “Mothers are their kids’ best advocates.  However you phrase it, I see evidence of this everywhere I go for my work as Save the Children’s CEO and, I guess, Mom-in-Chief.  It plays out whether I’m in Washington, DC or Lexington, Kentucky or the Bekka Valley of Lebanon.  And during my trip last week to rural Nepal, I saw it again in full force.

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No Birth Should Be Left Up to Chance


This blog first appeared in the Huffington Post


Giving birth ranks among the scariest moments for any mother. It certainly was for me. I was living in Hong Kong at the time when my second of three children was born. And he was born in a hurry. He came so fast that I actually thought I’d give birth in our car on the way to the hospital! Fortunately, that didn’t happen and I safely delivered my son Patrick surrounded by a team of well-trained doctors and nurses, not to mention my loving (and relieved!) husband by my side.



But I’m one of the lucky ones.


As new research released today by Save the Children reveals, 40 million women give birth without any trained help whatsoever. What’s more, 2 million women give birth entirely alone.


I met one of those women in Nepal about five years ago. I was there visiting our programs in the south of the country and stopped in to see a mom who had given birth a month prior. She sat with us and talked quite matter-of-factly about how when she went into labor with her third child, she didn’t panic. She merely laid down in a clean part of her house, caught the baby when she came out, cut the umbilical cord and wrapped her to keep her warm.


When she had finished telling her story, and I had stopped shaking my head in amazement, I couldn’t help but compare her experience to mine. After all, both of our children came into the world faster than we had anticipated. However, while my husband was there to drive me — fast — to a first-class hospital, this woman had no one. Her husband was away in India on business and her two daughters were in the next village. Even if she could manage to get herself to the nearest clinic, which was 2 kilometers away, she would have had to travel on foot. So she did the next best thing; she left it up to chance.


Fortunately for this mom both she and her newborn survived. But for too many women in the same situation, the outcome is much more tragic.


So many things can go wrong when a mother gives birth without a skilled birth attendant (SBA). Things such as prolonged labor, pre-eclampsia and infection — which are perfectly manageable when an SBA is present — can mean a death sentence in the absence of one.


For this reason, Save the Children is calling on world leaders, philanthropists and the private sector to commit to ensuring that by 2025 every birth is attended by trained and equipped health workers who can deliver essential health interventions for both the mother and the newborn.


Because no birth should be left up to chance.


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From the Philippines, With Love


The following blog first appeared on The Huffington Post.



I met with amazing students at an elementary school in Tacloban, which suffered extensive damage during Typhoon Haiyan. Classes are now conducted in tents adorned with the children’s artwork. Photo credit: David Wardell for Save the Children

I met with amazing students at an elementary school in Tacloban, which suffered extensive damage during Typhoon Haiyan. Classes are now conducted in tents adorned with the children’s artwork. Photo credit: David Wardell for Save the Children

Love. If there is a single word that best describes what I witnessed during my visit to the Philippines last week, then that’s it. Love of family. Love of community. Love of people. Love of life.


So what better day than Valentine’s Day to celebrate the dedication, perseverance and, of course, love between the communities, families and children in the parts of the country that were devastated by Typhoon Haiyan? I would also like to mention a specific passion that came up over and over again in my and my staff’s conversations with children: love of learning.


“I like to learn about science and different parts of the body,” sixth-grader and biology fan Jayfritz, 12, told my team. Meanwhile, his classmate Reylan, 12, likes any kind of story he can learn from. Fifth-grader Angel, 11, loves to read because she imagines herself as the characters in books (her favorite at the moment being Cinderella). And first-grader Divine Grace simply loves school. Period. “I am never absent in school. I am really smart,” the self-assured six-year-old told us. Could not agree more!


You get the idea. These kids love to learn and see school and education as a path to a bright and successful future. But as Haiyan lashed the shores of their country, leaving unprecedented destruction in its wake and affecting nearly 6 million children, it robbed many of them of opportunities to learn. In fact, children have born much of the brunt of this disaster, caring for siblings and parents, scrounging for food and missing out on school. continue reading »

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Guatemala: Heroes against Hunger


It’s hard to reconcile the beautiful highlands of Guatemala, where I was in mid-January, with this stark fact:  the child malnutrition rate here is the highest in the Western hemisphere.  Roughly 5 out of every 10 Guatemalan children suffer from chronic malnutrition. All around, you see green fields and lush vegetation, yet families living in poverty struggle to feed their families enough food and enough of the right foods.  And lack of diverse food for Guatemala’s poor doesn’t just affect kids today—it stunts a generation of children’s growth both mentally and physically and can hold back the whole country.  UN studies have shown that malnutrition can affect the GDP or earning power of a country by up to 5%. But now, an unlikely hero has stepped up to the plate. continue reading »

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More than Just a Handshake: How Corporate Partners Are Rolling Up Their Sleeves and Making an Impact


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The rise of partnerships between INGOs and corporations is now an established phenomenon.  It’s common knowledge that promoting relationships between business and development and relief organizations holds extraordinary value for the world’s poorest families.  But when do these mash-ups really work and when are they just a lot of time and money spent with little actual value for beneficiaries? continue reading »

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Syrian Kids, Lebanese Schools: A New “Normal”




When we came inside the tent, the Syrian family of eight welcomed us warmly and urged us to sit close to the small stove in the center for warmth.


While the weather had improved from the previous weeks when a winter storm dropped several inches of snow and temperatures dropped below freezing, it was still very chilly.  It looked like the children were wearing many of the clothes they owned, layer upon layer, though the smallest little girl still had bare feet.  With our Lebanon team translating, we talked and learned how this family fled Syria under fire on their farm near Homs and had been living in this makeshift camp of about 100 families for close to a year.  None of the children, from high school age down to four years old, had been able to go to school since they left home—but their father talked proudly about how they had excelled back in Syria, when all had a house to live in and a school to go to. Now, he said, he feared they would fall so far behind they could never catch up.  And we learned later that several of the children were working as laborers to support the family, something the father was too ashamed to tell the strangers who came to visit.


Child refugees from Syria now number over one million across the region, with an estimated 400,000 in Lebanon alone.  For most of these children, their childhood has been put on hold and for many it will never be revisited.  Many teenagers will most likely never go back to school.  What will this mean for the future of Syria when families are finally able to return?


My first trip to Lebanon since the crisis in Syria was a sobering one.  It is a country of about four million people and is now home to close to one million refugees from Syria—25% of its population.  That’s like if 75 million people suddenly arrived on our borders in Texas or California.  We would certainly be reeling if such a thing happened and the Lebanese are struggling too.  Given the infrastructure challenges of such a huge influx of people, it’s not a surprise that many children have not been able to get into school even two or three years after they left Syria.


Luckily, small efforts are making a big difference for these children. We visited a government school in Bekaa Valley that has agreed to run “second shift” programs for Syrian children.  Here, with support from Save the Children, kids are able to come to school in the afternoons for about three hours, after the regular classes have left, and have basic instruction in math, reading and science in their native languages of Arabic and English.  Some instruction in regular Lebanese classrooms is in French, a language very few Syrian children speak, making it tough for Syrian children to attend regular classes in Lebanon. Though “second shift” does not provide a full day of instruction, dedicated teachers are able to at least keep kids leaning and engaged.  


IMG_5436But probably the biggest benefit of this effort is what being back in the classroom means for these children emotionally.  In stark contrast to the quiet, withdrawn children we met in tents in the makeshift camps, kids at the school were smiling, jumping up eagerly to answer the teacher’s questions, joking and playing with us and just so obviously happy to be in school, a place that seemed to finally make them feel like normal kids again.


It’s heartbreaking to think that millions of kids inside and outside Syria aren’t benefiting from being in a classroom. Save the Children is working hard to make sure that more Syrian children have the chance to get back to school, get back to a (new) “normal” and get back to experiencing the childhood they need and deserve.


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New Boots Bring Hope in Jordan


The kindergarten inside the Za’atari camp in Jordan is a little island of happiness inside a place that is full of tragedy.  Here, 3-5 year-old Syrian children living in the huge camp are able to come three times per week in the morning or afternoon to have fun, build social skills and start learning.  The brightly colored space, the simple toys, the dedicated young teachers all serve as a respite from the tough, grinding life these children have been living for months or even years in the camp.  On my recent visit to Za’atari, the kids got something else too.  New winter boots, specially made and provided to Save the Children by TOMS Shoes, were distributed to 9,000 children.  As you can see from this video, the reactions were truly wonderful to see.


TOMS is pretty unique among our partners.  Many have not supported our efforts for Syria due to fears of political issues within the conflict or lack of focus on the Middle East.  But TOMS entire business model is built on the idea that for each pair of shoes purchased, a pair of appropriate shoes will be given to someone who needs them—the company has now given away more than 10 million pairs of shoes worldwide.  You won’t find the rubber boots we gave out in Za’atari camp at any shoe store in the U.S. or Europe or anywhere else you find TOMS for sale.  These boots were made for this specific purpose as part of TOMS “Giving Pair” effort when we pointed out the need for warm boots in the harsh and cold desert area where the camp is located.  We’ll be distributing the boots in China and Tajikistan as well to help keep kids warm from the winter chill.



Giving kids a new pair of boots in the middle of chaotic and complex Za’atari may seem like a small thing—and of course we are doing a lot more for children and families in the camp, from providing bread to all 85,000 residents every day to running 39 child friendly spaces and full service kindergartens, and more.  But when I slipped a new pair of boots on a little boy’s feet and saw the proud look on his face as he stared at shoes made and delivered just for him, I was reminded that sometimes the small things are the most important.



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2014 Must be a Better Year for Kids


This past year, like so many other years, saw its share of challenges for children around the world.  There were the more than one million refugee children who fled Syria, the tens of thousands of young children who lost their homes and loved ones in Typhoon Haiyan in the Philippines, and the over 300,000 babies in India that died on their very first day of life this year.


DSC_6020But the children I remember from 2013 were the individual kids I briefly got to know in my travels to our programs around the world.
  Here are the stories of just a few of these children who are living in impossible and heartbreaking situations—but looking forward to a brighter future thanks to the efforts of my colleagues and partners around the world:


Exancé was a sad 13 year-old boy, tiny for his age, who I met in Kinshasa in the Democratic Republic of the Congo in November.  Though he couldn’t tell us all the details of his young life, the haunted look behind his eyes told me that it had already been full of pain.  Exancé was found on the streets, living in a filthy alleyway after his parents had turned him out of their house.  He was surviving each day by hauling garbage for the fruit and vegetable sellers in the market, paid in scraps of food and a corner to sleep in. One of the vendors in the market is a volunteer for Save the Children and alerts our team when a child is found abandoned and looking for shelter.  When I met Exancé, he was in a quiet courtyard meeting with our team, who worked to convince him to come with them to the transitional house a few miles from the village market.  Here he would get a warm bed, clothes and three meals a day and be enrolled in the local school. His life, though still hard for any child, is finally taking a turn toward something better.


In September, I met a little girl in Pakistan—I never learned her name but I was captivated by her joy in a simple classroom in a remote village. She listened wide-eyed as her teacher, a local woman who was trained in our Early Childhood Development program, went through the alphabet and colors, and led the children in a song that helped them learn the days of the week.  Her hand was the first to shoot up when the teacher asked for volunteers to describe the animal pictures each child had proudly stuck to the front wall in the tiny classroom.  I later learned that this little girl came from one of the poorest families in the community and that her parents, who never made it past primary school themselves, were determined that their only child would go farther.  For a small girl in rural Pakistan, that is a big dream—but one that this amazing little girl can reach thanks to her caring teacher and supportive parents.



Mohammad stands in the doorway to his house in the Domiz Refugee Camp

Nawzad stands in the doorway to his house in the Domiz Refugee Camp

The third child who lodged himself in my memory in 2013 is a shy little 9 year-old boy named Nawzad who peered out at me as I walked down a dusty path inside the Domiz refugee camp in Iraq.  He was one of the many Syrian children who had to flee their homes when the shelling and bombing started inside Syria.  Now Nawzad lives in a simple cinder block hut in the midst of the sprawling camp—a temporary camp that was built for 10,000 on the northern Iraqi border that now holds close to 50,000 souls, almost half of them children. Save the Children works in the camp to provide education and play spaces for kids and improve the sanitation and health services for children.  As I sat and talked with Nawzad and his parents, it was clear that they longed to go back to their simple life in Syria, where his father was a house painter and Nawzad a star student in the local school.  Though I don’t know for sure, it’s likely Nawzad and his family are still sitting in the dusty camp as the war rages on toward its third year in his homeland.


I met so many more children this past year and each has his or her own story about the hardships they face due to poverty, war, or natural calamities.  But in each child, as with the three I describe above, there was a fierce desire that things would—and could—get better, that they could improve their lives and futures.  My biggest wish for 2014 is that Exancé, Nawzad and that little girl I met in Pakistan have a brighter year, one with less pain and heartache and more joy and happiness.  Every child has the right to these basic things.


To all of you who have supported our work, I wish you the best in the New Year and a heartfelt thanks for all you’ve made possible for EVERY child.



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Courageous Work in Freezing Temperatures


With more than half of the United States under a blanket of snow this week, it’s clear that winter is here!   The frosty weather has arrived in full force—but it’s not just the Midwest or East Coast where winter is making itself felt.  The winter snow storms have started in Lebanon and Jordan, and my Save the Children colleagues abroad are going above and beyond for Syrian refugees.


RS69214_IMG_1841I received an email from our Country Director in Jordan, Saba, who is leading a fearless team in very difficult circumstances.  This past weekend, when accumulated snow flooded refugee tents, the team worked through the night to evacuate families to some of our Child Friendly Spaces, which were prepared as emergency shelters.  They moved 134 families, including 431 children, into the heated shelters and provided warm clothing, food, mattresses and blankets.  Saba noted that, despite the hours and the strain, “we will continue to work as needed” to look after children’s needs.


This snow is the first sign of the treacherous winter in the region that will only increase suffering for children and their families. Between November and February, temperatures can drop well below freezing—and for more than two million refugees in the region, one million of them children, the humanitarian crisis will only increase as they struggle to stay warm.


I look forward to traveling to Jordan in January and expressing my thanks in person to Saba and the team in the field.  In the meantime, I hope you will support their courageous work and everything they are doing to keep children safe and warm this winter.


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Lending a Dollar in a City of Diamonds




After a weekend in Kinshasa in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, I traveled to see a Save the Children program in Mbuji Mayi, a city about 600 miles into the interior of the country.  On my way to the office, I was amazed by the number of diamond trading outlets along the main streets.  Diamond mining is big business but the people who mine them—oftentimes children—receive very little pay in exchange for the gems that people will pay thousands for around the world.

The diamond business is a glaring contrast to the widespread poverty most families face in the DRC.  The majority of the population lack access to basic services, with more than half of the population living on less than a dollar a day. In addition, relentless conflict has nearly destroyed the country’s infrastructure and economy in the east.  The existence of rich natural resources in the DRC actually puts tremendous pressure on poor families; prices for food and basic services are very high due to the influx of outsiders who come to extract and buy products like diamonds.  This drives costs up for everyone and is especially hard on those who can least afford it.


But in Mbuji Mayi, communities are taking their financial future into their own hands.  I met with Madam Noniyabu, who invited me to join a meeting with members of the local Bubanji micro-credit project.  Madam Noniyabu is powerful force for change in her community.  She explained to me how the project works: each week, members deposit roughly $1-3 in a group account. Members of the group who require credit make a presentation to the larger group, which then weighs the benefits and votes on where they will invest.  Most of the time, credit is extended to those who have strong ideas for starting or expanding their businesses.  The goal is to help local business owners support their families and children with business grants, and use a small amount of interest to help community members in tough circumstances. Madam Noniyabiu is tough but fair—I watched as she admonished a late-paying member of the lending group and then gave a generous grant to help a woman who had just lost her husband.


By working as a community, this micro-credit group makes low-cost loans available through a community structure.  Community members are able to help each other rather than relying on banks that charge up to 50% interest, and they use the funding to give the children of the community a boost.


For poor children living in impoverished areas of the Democratic Republic of the Congo, living in a family with some financial security improves their changes for a better childhood and a better life.  To a family struggling to survive, small-scale community loans to help them build their businesses and provide for their children is worth more than gold—or even diamonds.


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